So, there will be court tomorrow...
I am totally nervous...
I don't like people with authority over me...
which is kind of funny considering that I am married to a person who is a authortive figure at his work, but maybe its because he is totally different at home.
My first marriage was horrible filled with domestic violence and the use of ilegal drugs on his part and every time I seen a police officer or had to go to court, I started freaking out that I was going to get in trouble for what he did. I have never been in trouble in my life, only one traffic ticket in all these years, but still I freak out. Why can't my brain just understand that its just their job, and they aren't out to get me?
The last time I went to court was for a divorce from my first husband. I had to take the stand!! First time in my life! I was so nervous..sweating and shaking all over. I noticed the person who went before me, the judge kept telling that person to speak up. So when it was my turn, I was practically screaming into the mic and answering yes or no before the attorney could finish the question! But I got through it, I hope I do better tomorrow.
Tomorrow is an annulment, not that we want it...
That is another long horrible story for another time.
Then next week, we are going to get married all over again, same as last time..a short little court house of I do's and then once again we will be married.
But, I want to say up front that we have been married since March 17th of 08. All of this is just a techincally...We celebrate our marriage on that date...We are married, we did nothing wrong, this was done to us by someone else.
Now, I will have two dates to celebrate!
Thursday, October 28, 2010
Thursday, October 14, 2010
Monday, October 11, 2010
Friday!!!
I know its only Monday, but I am so excited for friday..I can hardly wait!
I will be saying hello Florida...nice to see you again!
My awesome hubby already told me, when we get there he is going to take me to the mall. OMG!! I haven't been to a mall in two years! We don't have one here in this small town. I get to go shopping at all my favoite stores..Sweeeett!!
It's only for the weekend, I wish we could stay longer, we are going to try to put so much into a weekend.
On the agenda : Shopping, college football game, dinner with the inlaws, and lunch with my brother, who I adore and miss so much! Oh, and stopping by the SIL's house to give her our down payment on the cabin for the family reunion next summer. I am sure, when we get there, things will be added to the agenda...So Happy, hurry up week, please go by quickly!
I will be saying hello Florida...nice to see you again!
My awesome hubby already told me, when we get there he is going to take me to the mall. OMG!! I haven't been to a mall in two years! We don't have one here in this small town. I get to go shopping at all my favoite stores..Sweeeett!!
It's only for the weekend, I wish we could stay longer, we are going to try to put so much into a weekend.
On the agenda : Shopping, college football game, dinner with the inlaws, and lunch with my brother, who I adore and miss so much! Oh, and stopping by the SIL's house to give her our down payment on the cabin for the family reunion next summer. I am sure, when we get there, things will be added to the agenda...So Happy, hurry up week, please go by quickly!
Thursday, October 7, 2010
Maury?
Why do people insist on being crazy? It is beyond me! Let me start from the beginning..
Facebook IM from some woman: Does your husband have a black cat tattoo?
Yes, he does, for the record, its a panther.
This woman goes on to tell me, she met my husband when she was 18, and he fathered her child, but ditched her and ran away from a dna test when the court ordered it.
I was fuming, beyond pissed! I called my husband screaming at him. Do you know so and so? was the first question I asked, his answer no. As I got more information from her and was relaying it to him over the phone. She claims she changed her name after her mother died in 2005. uhm....ok So we go back and forth and she is telling me that she doesn't want anything but a dna test. No child support, just wants her nine year old to know her dad. I pry and pry for information, gathering as much as I can. Well, because several red flags were being raised. When we finally figured out who she was, he did not meet her when she was 18. She was older than him, much older. She was 27 years old. Then she kept mis-spelling her own kid's name. I asked for pictures, she sent me cell phone pictures that were so tiny, you could not tell what was even in the picture.
Then this woman tells me, she don't want anything from me, but she has told her nine year old about him and she wants her daughter to come move in with us! wtf? First off, he is completely denying that he got her pregnant...but I was like, maybe there is a possibilty so we should get a dna test, and go from there. I asked this woman when her daughter was born? she gives me the date of August 7th and the year. I count back nine months..it comes to November. I tell my husband, are you sure you were not seeing her during the months of October or November ten years ago? He pulls up his military records...he was deployed!! Not only was he deployed to Spain but had been deployed from July of that year until Febuary of the next year.
Today, I send her a message..and tell her that it can not be his child because obviously he wasn't even in the country. I swear you are not going believe me...but she says...oh, she's not nine years old..she is ten! What? how do you not know your child's age? Please!
My husband said he did date her, but figured out she was a little crazy and broke up with her. When he broke up with her, she did the normal, please take me back, I can't live without you. When that did not work, she said she was pregnant with twins and then called to say she had miscarried. She was stalking him and wouldn't leave him alone, his command had to get involved.
I was not around ten years ago, or even nine years ago...but seriously? I think I can do math. She keeps telling me how she loves him, but he don't love her...he loves me. She just wants him to be happy!
I don't know what to do with this crazy woman!
Facebook IM from some woman: Does your husband have a black cat tattoo?
Yes, he does, for the record, its a panther.
This woman goes on to tell me, she met my husband when she was 18, and he fathered her child, but ditched her and ran away from a dna test when the court ordered it.
I was fuming, beyond pissed! I called my husband screaming at him. Do you know so and so? was the first question I asked, his answer no. As I got more information from her and was relaying it to him over the phone. She claims she changed her name after her mother died in 2005. uhm....ok So we go back and forth and she is telling me that she doesn't want anything but a dna test. No child support, just wants her nine year old to know her dad. I pry and pry for information, gathering as much as I can. Well, because several red flags were being raised. When we finally figured out who she was, he did not meet her when she was 18. She was older than him, much older. She was 27 years old. Then she kept mis-spelling her own kid's name. I asked for pictures, she sent me cell phone pictures that were so tiny, you could not tell what was even in the picture.
Then this woman tells me, she don't want anything from me, but she has told her nine year old about him and she wants her daughter to come move in with us! wtf? First off, he is completely denying that he got her pregnant...but I was like, maybe there is a possibilty so we should get a dna test, and go from there. I asked this woman when her daughter was born? she gives me the date of August 7th and the year. I count back nine months..it comes to November. I tell my husband, are you sure you were not seeing her during the months of October or November ten years ago? He pulls up his military records...he was deployed!! Not only was he deployed to Spain but had been deployed from July of that year until Febuary of the next year.
Today, I send her a message..and tell her that it can not be his child because obviously he wasn't even in the country. I swear you are not going believe me...but she says...oh, she's not nine years old..she is ten! What? how do you not know your child's age? Please!
My husband said he did date her, but figured out she was a little crazy and broke up with her. When he broke up with her, she did the normal, please take me back, I can't live without you. When that did not work, she said she was pregnant with twins and then called to say she had miscarried. She was stalking him and wouldn't leave him alone, his command had to get involved.
I was not around ten years ago, or even nine years ago...but seriously? I think I can do math. She keeps telling me how she loves him, but he don't love her...he loves me. She just wants him to be happy!
I don't know what to do with this crazy woman!
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Been So Busy
But busy is good...
The Lt.Dan weekend was great! I was paired up with a Staff Sgt. Marine and it was nice to talk to him and the other volunteers that were there. I was having actual adult conversations with adults, what a concept!! At last count before I left we had raised 100,000 for the wounded veterans, so that is also pretty awesome.
I finally went to the Parris Island Museum, can't believe I have lived here for almost two years and finally went over there and seen. It was pretty interesting and very informative. Every time we go over to Parris Island, I get a sense of pride...my dad was a marine during ww2 and also a drill instructor at the island..for some reason, I feel close to him when I am there on the island.
Getting super excited to go to Tallahassee next weekend too. College football, dinner with the inlaws and a visit with my brother.
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Sadness...Just Sadness...
The missing miltary wife, Lori Arrowood was found murdered today and the killer, makes me sick to even say it this, was in law enforcement. Prayers are lifted up for her family and friends.
I also got a call today from one of my sisters, that my oldest sister is in the hospital and not doing well at all. She was in a house fire last week, and things aren't looking good. Praying for a miracle.
I have a sickness, sinus infection, or the sucks to be you kinda flu, trying to get over this since I am going to be volunteering this weekend at the Lt. Dan/Shrimp festival to raise money for wounded veterans..which I am honored to be a part of and hopefully...I will not be traveling to a funeral and can still attend. Going keep praying and hoping for the best
I also got a call today from one of my sisters, that my oldest sister is in the hospital and not doing well at all. She was in a house fire last week, and things aren't looking good. Praying for a miracle.
I have a sickness, sinus infection, or the sucks to be you kinda flu, trying to get over this since I am going to be volunteering this weekend at the Lt. Dan/Shrimp festival to raise money for wounded veterans..which I am honored to be a part of and hopefully...I will not be traveling to a funeral and can still attend. Going keep praying and hoping for the best
Monday, September 27, 2010
Military Wife Is Missing...
Please help get the word out for her and her family...
Lori Arrowood, there is a page set up for her on facebook..anyone who happens to stop by and read my blog, please go check out the PLEASE HELP FIND LORI ARROWOOD MISSING SINCE 9/25/10 page on facebook.
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